Bad mood

Okay I am hall council president at my dorm. I get that everyone has to miss meeting and has a life outside of school. But, what i don't get is how some of the people in my council seem to think that I have no life outside of Hall council, and how others seem to think that I spend my time plotting ways for revenge. So I get an email from one of my members saying that no one told her she was a part of Hall Council. If she checked her email more often she would - i don't know- see the email I sent that welcomed everyone to hall council and that clearly in bold capitalization say the day and the time of meetings. It is not my job to go chasing after college students to make sure that they know what time the meeting is - just so twenty minutes latter they can send me an excuse for why they can't make it. I get that people have a life, they have school work, my issue is that why sign up for something if you are not going to be able to do it. Now that I think about it she sent me an email three weeks ago asking what her position is. oh well at least I got my frustrations out somewhat maybe now I can go to sleep.